What’s yours, what’s not, and what never was Hi loves, When I was packing up my life to move, I kept thinking about how much we carry without meaning to. Now that I am fully settled in, unpacked, and starting this new chapter, I realize the real work was never just about clothes and luggage. It was about what I chose to bring with me, and what I finally allowed myself to leave behind. The clutter in my closet was not just old clothes. Some of it was from high school. Even mi