Welcome to Reflections, a space where I share the lessons, mindset shifts, and defining moments shaping my journey. Some lessons come with challenges, others with ease, but each one is a step toward growth. I hope these reflections inspire you to step confidently into your own path. Here is what has been on my mind lately…
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So, yesterday I went to a real estate networking event, and it was such a fulfilling experience. Not only was it insightful to speak with industry professionals and learn more about the field, but it also reminded me of something important.
Standing in a room full of people I had never met before and asking questions in front of them was not something entirely new for me. A year ago, and even before that, I would have done the same without hesitation. But life, as it tends to do, had its moments, and somewhere along the way, I found myself stepping back more than I used to. Lately, I have been making a conscious effort to push myself again, stepping into spaces that challenge me rather than staying in a place that simply feels familiar. Staying comfortable does not always allow for progress.
I love being in environments filled with determination and optimism. That is where I thrive. And this past week, between networking, attending new workshops, and trying out exercise classes, I have been reminded of how much there is to gain when I choose to show up fully in my own life.
Let this be your sign to get comfortable with being uncomfortable. More often than not, the things we fear stepping into are not nearly as intimidating as we imagine. Half of the battle is just getting out of your own head. Try that new skill, pick up that hobby, start that personal venture, and introduce yourself to new people.
And most importantly, do not be afraid to MOVE. If you recognize that an environment, situation, or even a person is holding you back, do not hesitate to shift. Nothing that is meant for you will ever truly be lost. You do not need to entertain distractions that keep you from progressing and feeling good about yourself.
Wear Your Confidence
Going to an event or stepping into a new space? One thing that made a difference for me at the networking event was my outfit. Styling myself in a fabulous look was not just about aesthetics. It was about energy. When you look good, you feel good, and when you feel good, you carry yourself differently.
If you are a bit introverted, it can be tempting to fade into the background at social gatherings. However, when you dress with intention and wear something that makes you feel confident, you naturally take up space, making it impossible to hide. I have always lived by the idea that it is better to be overdressed than underdressed. At this event, I certainly was, but it only added to my confidence. I felt like I could hold a conversation with anyone in the room.
The truth is, I have always been someone who takes up space, who steps into rooms with confidence and embraces new experiences. But somewhere along the way, life happened. And while I never stopped showing up for myself, it became harder. I did not do it as much, and that boldness that once came naturally started to feel more like a conscious effort. This past week, though, felt like a shift. I felt like I was stepping back into that space of ease, where I thrive, where I belong.
When you pour into yourself, it becomes easier for others to do the same. And this past week has reminded me of how important it is to show up. In just one week, I have experienced more, met more incredible people, and created more opportunities than I would have if I had stayed still.
Also, a fun surprise from the event. I was given a copy of Think and Grow Rich by Napoleon Hill. This book has been on my reading list for a while, and now that I have a physical copy in hand, I have no excuse not to read it. Actually, this makes me want to do a book review soon. Let me know if that is something you would love to see, and do not forget to subscribe to my newsletter for more exclusive updates.
As you step into this week, walk into every room with confidence, say yes to new experiences, and challenge yourself to break out of your comfort zone. Do not take the passenger seat in your own life. You are worth so much more than that.
Let me know in the comments. What have you done lately to step into your confidence? What is one thing you are challenging yourself to do this week?
Wishing you a successful and vibrant week.
- Love,
Camilla T. 💎
I need to work on getting out of my comfort zone so hearing your story really motivates me to try!
Dressing well has always made me feel powerful. People see me. 😍
Loved reading this too!👌
Loved reading this! I definitely feel much better when I have a nice outfit on